It’s taken me a long while to figure out that my love for stories and books can be incorporated into decorating, but here we are and I’m loving it. For a while, my decorating mainly entailed lots of pictures. That will likely always be true, but I’m slowly incorporating bookworm-esque love into it as well, and it is so much fun. Here are a few things that I’ve realized make great décor for bibliophiles.
Pretty book editions
I had to overcome my practical side to take the plunge on this one. Logic says, “You already have that book. There’s no need to get another edition just because it’s pretty.” But forget logic on this one. Get that colorful or beautifully decorated edition and sit it proudly on your shelf in a prominent spot. Have a special place for the pretty editions and enjoy them thoroughly every day. I now have grand visions of a future house with beautiful, built-in wall shelves stacked with gorgeous editions. It’s coming, y’all. So far, the two pictured above are my starters, and I now have my envious eye on the Puffin in Bloom Collection and the Penguin’s Jane Austen Classic Hardcover Set.
Frame quotes from your favorite books
Show your favorites some love by hanging their best lines in places of honor. Mr. Darcy now has that award in my room. He sure did have some good ones, let me tell ya.
Frame good bookish quotes in general
I have my friend Jamie of Books and Beverages to thank for these as well as the Pride and Prejudice art above. These quotes capture so much of what I love about stories and I’m so glad to have them to look at every day. ANNND Jamie’s having a MASSIVE sale over at her Shoppe right now so get on over there and buy yourself some goodies!
Bookish arts and crafts
As I’ve mentioned before, I’m not crafty at all, but there are people out there who are and also happily grace the book-loving world with their talent. You’ll be amazed at what you can find on Etsy and other craft-related places. I got this lovely Pride and Prejudice pages wreath from a friend’s craft show a few years ago and I doubt I’ll ever get tired of looking at it. She also had book-page bouquets, mini Christmas trees, ornaments, and much more!
What kind of bookish decorating have you done? Do you have any other suggestions? I’d love to hear! Always looking for more ways to show book love around the house!
I am not a crafty person. At all. I’ve never particularly liked extensive craft projects and have no desire to be one of those impressive DIY people. But recently, I discovered that I do enjoy a definitive scrapbook project, and it made me think that maybe other not-at-all crafty people might get a kick out of it too.
First, some background on this scrapbook I just completed. It’s an album commemorating my summer as a counselor at Camp Marannook in 2012, and I started working on it in the summer of 2013. But, as often happens with ambitious crafty things, I quickly got overwhelmed, ran out of some necessary supplies, and abandoned it. I knew I wanted to finish it someday, but it would have to be at another point in time. Fast forward to this summer. I’ve had lots of extra time on my hands and had gradually restocked my materials, so I determined to get it done. A few weeks later, I’m so glad I did and have fondly looked through the completed book many times. So, here are a few reasons I now recommend scrapbooking even for the non-crafty person, along with a few tips for the process.
Reasons to Try It
1. You’re surrounded with happy memories the whole time
The whole process did wonders for my mood and mental state, and I wasn’t expecting that. But seeing all the pictures spread out on my floor and remembering the context of them all put me back inside that summer at camp, and it was a joy to look back on it all for a few weeks. Being enveloped in the happy memories was so refreshing that this aspect alone made me start considering other future scrapbooks I might try.
2. It’s satisfying, hands-on work
One of the coolest things about the scrapbooking process was just seeing it come together before my eyes. With something like this, you’ll usually have ideas of what you want it to look like, and it’s so rewarding to see your imaginings become reality. And working with your hands can just feel good, you know?
3. The end result is so worth it
The completed book is such a nice memento to now have on my shelf. What’s more, it does justice to a sweet, valuable time in my life. And the sense of accomplishment I felt when I completed the last page can scarce be described. I had done this, and it was a beautiful ode to memories I wanted to keep close. Now it’s certain they always will be.
Tips
1. Double-sided tape
Not having this was one of my rookie mistakes when I first started putting the book together three years ago. I began with glue, which is not only messy, but can also leave marks and imprints in inconvenient places. Double-sided tape is definitely the way to go, and be sure to have lots of it when you start. I think I used up six-and-a-half rolls on maybe the last eighth of my book.
2. A paper cutter
When I started this scrapbook way back, I hadn’t thought about how much cutting would be involved. But almost every picture will need to be trimmed, as will any construction paper used for borders, backgrounds, frames, and so on. And trying to do all that snipping with scissors contributed largely to my stress, because I can’t cut in a straight line to save my life. Enter the paper cutter. It cuts beautiful straight lines every time and saves loads of time in the bargain.
3. A good playlist
Happy, upbeat music in the background was also a huge mood booster for me during the process. I was surprised by this at first, as I usually go for an audiobook when I’m cleaning or driving. But scrapbooking requires more thought and inward conversation with yourself than I initially realized. When I tried an audiobook, I found myself unable to both listen to the story and think out how I wanted the page to look. So I then opted for the same few playlists every day, and it was so much fun. I had happy music cheering me on as I basked in happy memories, and I enjoyed the combination immensely.
What are your thoughts on scrapbooking? Have you ever done one? What other crafty things do you think that even non-crafty people could enjoy! I’d love to hear about your experiences in comments!
First, some background on this scrapbook I just completed. It’s an album commemorating my summer as a counselor at Camp Marannook in 2012, and I started working on it in the summer of 2013. But, as often happens with ambitious crafty things, I quickly got overwhelmed, ran out of some necessary supplies, and abandoned it. I knew I wanted to finish it someday, but it would have to be at another point in time. Fast forward to this summer. I’ve had lots of extra time on my hands and had gradually restocked my materials, so I determined to get it done. A few weeks later, I’m so glad I did and have fondly looked through the completed book many times. So, here are a few reasons I now recommend scrapbooking even for the non-crafty person, along with a few tips for the process.
Reasons to Try It
1. You’re surrounded with happy memories the whole time
The whole process did wonders for my mood and mental state, and I wasn’t expecting that. But seeing all the pictures spread out on my floor and remembering the context of them all put me back inside that summer at camp, and it was a joy to look back on it all for a few weeks. Being enveloped in the happy memories was so refreshing that this aspect alone made me start considering other future scrapbooks I might try.
2. It’s satisfying, hands-on work
One of the coolest things about the scrapbooking process was just seeing it come together before my eyes. With something like this, you’ll usually have ideas of what you want it to look like, and it’s so rewarding to see your imaginings become reality. And working with your hands can just feel good, you know?
3. The end result is so worth it
The completed book is such a nice memento to now have on my shelf. What’s more, it does justice to a sweet, valuable time in my life. And the sense of accomplishment I felt when I completed the last page can scarce be described. I had done this, and it was a beautiful ode to memories I wanted to keep close. Now it’s certain they always will be.
Tips
1. Double-sided tape
Not having this was one of my rookie mistakes when I first started putting the book together three years ago. I began with glue, which is not only messy, but can also leave marks and imprints in inconvenient places. Double-sided tape is definitely the way to go, and be sure to have lots of it when you start. I think I used up six-and-a-half rolls on maybe the last eighth of my book.
2. A paper cutter
When I started this scrapbook way back, I hadn’t thought about how much cutting would be involved. But almost every picture will need to be trimmed, as will any construction paper used for borders, backgrounds, frames, and so on. And trying to do all that snipping with scissors contributed largely to my stress, because I can’t cut in a straight line to save my life. Enter the paper cutter. It cuts beautiful straight lines every time and saves loads of time in the bargain.
3. A good playlist
Happy, upbeat music in the background was also a huge mood booster for me during the process. I was surprised by this at first, as I usually go for an audiobook when I’m cleaning or driving. But scrapbooking requires more thought and inward conversation with yourself than I initially realized. When I tried an audiobook, I found myself unable to both listen to the story and think out how I wanted the page to look. So I then opted for the same few playlists every day, and it was so much fun. I had happy music cheering me on as I basked in happy memories, and I enjoyed the combination immensely.
What are your thoughts on scrapbooking? Have you ever done one? What other crafty things do you think that even non-crafty people could enjoy! I’d love to hear about your experiences in comments!
History can have a bad rap. So many people I meet scoff and roll their eyes when history arises in conversation. I hear people say it’s pointless, boring, or unusable, and I honestly want to cry when I hear such things. If you’re prone to this kind of opinion, will you please try to lay aside that notion for a moment? More than likely, you were never taught history in an engaging way. You may not have been told that events of the past have everything to do with the way you now live and with the worldview to which you now ascribe. And perhaps most tragically, you might not have been told that the study of history serves as an excellent antidote to pride and selfishness, and it can also help lead to a greater knowledge and affection for the God who has written it.
First of all, history is important because it is God’s doing. History = His story. When we look back into ages gone by, we are meant to see marks of His guidance, sovereignty, and faithfulness all over it. Consider how many times in the Old Testament Israel’s leaders recited Israel’s own history to the people and charged them to remember. How many times did God Himself tell the people to remember and go forward with it in their hearts? How many times did Jesus refer back to Israel’s history and explain how it pointed to Himself? We are commanded to combat doubt, fear, and uncertainty by looking back and remembering (Psalm 77). He has been faithful in the past, so we can go forward in hope.
And second, history is important because it demands humility of us and cultivates humility in us. Looking back requires mentally stepping out of our own time and considering a different viewpoint. It requires admitting that the present is not all there is, and we need that. I’ve been realizing that it is frightfully arrogant and selfish to believe that our current era has all we need and there is nothing to learn from the past. We are not meant to sit in our own personal bubble of time and space without seeking out knowledge of other times and places. To put it bluntly, history did not begin on your birthday or on my birthday, and to act as such by dismissing the lives of those who have gone before us reeks of ignorance and conceit. I’m not saying we all should become history buffs and memorize every country’s historical timeline. History professors will remain their own breed, and that’s completely fine. But I am saying that we have an obligation to preserve the memory of those who came before us and to continue learning from them. Just like all cultures should learn from one another, every new time period should learn from the others before it. Eric Metaxas expresses this profoundly in his excellent book, Seven Women:
“We must be honest enough to recognize that each era cannot help having a pinched, parochial view of things, and of course the largest part of that parochialism is that each era thinks it is not parochial at all. Each era has the fatal hubris to believe that it has once and for all climbed to the top of the mountain and can see everything as it is, from the highest and most objective vantage point possible. But to assert that ours is the only blinker-less view of things is to blither fatuousness. We need to delve into the past to know that we have not progressed to any point of perfection and objectivity…The Bible says we are to humble ourselves, and in reading the stories of great men and women from the past, we inevitably do just that. But in humbling ourselves in that way we ironically gain a far greater objectivity and a far better vantage point from which to see things.”
Well said, sir. And Eric Metaxas is only one of many authors who have done us the service of preserving the stories of historical men and women from whom we can learn much. As previously mentioned, I’m sorry if history was presented to you as a chore or necessary evil as you grew up. History is not meant to be confined to a class lecture or a few tests for which to regurgitate random facts. It is something that you can constantly learn in many enjoyable ways. I’ve learned more about World War I and the Roaring ’20s from Downton Abbey than I ever did from a textbook, and a few tours of Washington D.C. and Virginia have made me marvel at God’s faithfulness throughout the founding of the United States. Read, watch, travel, and learn, my friends. There will never be a shortage of material. Hit me up if you need suggestions that are fun and informative! As usual, I think stories help a lot :)
Have you struggled to appreciate history before? What historical settings do you enjoy in books or movies? What are your favorite historical fiction works? I’d love to hear!
I have a rather discomfiting confession to make. As you know, I love all things books and reading. However, there’s an aspect of my reading life that needs help. In truth…
I am awful at reading more than one book at a time.
There, it’s out. I hope you’re not too put off, as this is an almost universal and expected gift among book-lovers, but I’m just terrible at making it happen. So, if you share this failing with me, I hope you’re encouraged. I used to be a whiz at it, but maybe required college reading, the many commitments and distractions of adult life, or the feeling that I just have to be fully committed to one book at a time all overtook me. I think it could be a combination of all three. But there is hope! I’ve been working on this and have found that two particular methods have noticeably helped. It’ll likely be a work in progress for a while, but I’m making strides. I hope these tips help you too if you struggle with this!
So, when you attempt to read multiple books at once:
1. Pick one to purposely read over a longer period
This takes the pressure off for me at a certain level. When I pick up any book, I feel like I have to commit to it, which is one reason I have difficulty reading multiple books at a time. But deliberately deciding and knowing to take one of them slowly helps me. Usually, this pick is a deep, chew-on-it, and often spiritually themed one. This way, I’m giving myself time to take it in thoroughly as well as time to read other books. For this type of take-it-slow selection, I’ll only read a little of it (maybe just one chapter) each week so there’s more than enough time to devote to the faster paced ones. And as mentioned, reading this slowly also forces me to think about it intentionally, so it’s a win-win.
2. Use multiple book formats
I now have three reading methods – regular old hard copies of books, a Kindle, and audiobooks. And I honestly recommend all three without hesitation! Obviously, the tried-and-true hard copies can’t be beat for me. There’s just something special and magical about holding a book in your hands and turning the pages. But my Kindle and Audible have become my very good friends this past year.
I recommend the Kindle for its amazing portability, if nothing else. You can store so many books on it and it’s small, ideal for most bags, so you can usually have it on hand. Mine is light enough to slip into most purses, so I carry it with me everywhere. It’s easy to whip out when I’m in a waiting room, a long line, or anywhere else that I might find a spare minute to read a few pages or even a few paragraphs. Gone is the excuse for not being able to carry around a book everywhere! Plus, the low Kindle edition prices are beautiful things. There are well-respected titles going for two and three bucks regularly on Kindle edition, and I take full advantage!
As for audiobooks, I’ve kind of fallen in love with them. It almost feels like cheating since you’re not reading words, but listening is really also a great way to absorb a book. Audiobooks save me during commutes, long car trips, and workouts. Music just doesn’t do it for me for very long, and there’s nothing like getting lost in a good story to make the time fly! I'll likely have more posts coming soon about my favorite audiobooks so far, so stay tuned for that!
So, having all three of these book formats going at once, I’ve found that I’m getting better at working through multiple books simultaneously. Audiobooks are for the car, cleaning, working out, etc. My Kindle and physical books can be used pretty interchangeably, but usually if I’m out and about, I’ll have my Kindle instead of a hard copy. When I’m lounging at home, either one will do.
So, how good or bad are you at reading more than one book at a time? Do you have more tips for how to make it happen easily? What are your thoughts on Kindles and audiobooks? I’m all ears.
Granted, this is not an official “book blog,” but books feature heavily since stories are the general premise. Books have always been a huge part of my life, and I now derive great satisfaction from analyzing them, sharing them, and discussing them. I’ve contemplated why books are so important to me, and this is an attempt to both explain that and to engage you, my readers, on the significance of books and reading. I’d love thoughts and comments from you on this! Personally, I’ve arrived at these simple reasons behind the importance of books and reading.
Because Stories Matter
Stories are everywhere, as I like to say. And they’re important because we were hardwired for them and we are living in one. Think about our knowledge of God and His purpose for us. He could have revealed Himself to us in limitless ways. And yet He chose to do it through a story. A book. When Jesus came to earth, He taught in parables – stories that pointed to something bigger. From the beginning of time, God set a story in motion. He created the world with words, and since then, godly men throughout the centuries have written down and preserved the stories of His faithfulness. And we are in the continuation of that overarching story of His goodness and redemption. We are players in the very best story that has a perfect climax which really doesn’t end. That’s why we like stories here. We flock to the movies and devour books that draw us in and give positive messages of hope and happiness. I think it’s because we realize we were made for something bigger and better. Deep down, we want something to hold onto that’s outside of ourselves, and the best stories we have here give us glimpses of that. They remind us of the beauty and joy and perfection we were created for.
Because Learning Matters
We must never stop learning. I’ve mentioned this before, but I’m truly sorry if school taught you to think of reading and learning as chores and necessary evils. Will you believe me when I say that it’s simply not true? I think Mark Twain said it well when he observed, “I never allow schooling to interfere with my education.” Even (or especially) when we’re not in formal school, learning is vital to our flourishing as humans and we must still engage our minds. I passionately believe that reading is one of the best ways to do this, whether the book is a revered classic or an easy beach read. God has given us minds for a reason, and he loves minds that seek to His glory and our good. The ability to read is a gift in itself. A simple Google search will show you that a staggering percentage of the world today cannot read or write. So I urge you to use and hone that gift. Our minds are not meant to sit idle. Read to learn and to enjoy at the same time. If you’ve never thought those two things could go together, I’d love to chat with you about it! I’ve become a student of reasons people use to not read, and most of them only further convince me that many people simply still have an inaccurate perspective on reading or haven’t read the right book yet. I’d love to help you find one that’s right for you!
So, friends, what does reading mean to you? Do you struggle to read? In what ways do you want to improve your reading life? I’d love to hear!
“Great are the works of the LORD; they are studied by all who delight in them.” –Psalm 111:2
“The works of the LORD are great. In design, in size, in number, in excellence, all the works of the Lord are great. Even the little things of God are great. In some point of view or other each one of the productions of his power, or the deeds of his wisdom, will appear to be great to the wise in heart... Those who love their Maker delight in his handiwork, they perceive that there is more in them than appears upon the surface, and therefore they bend their minds to study and understand them.”
–Commentary on Psalm 111:2
Because Stories Matter
Stories are everywhere, as I like to say. And they’re important because we were hardwired for them and we are living in one. Think about our knowledge of God and His purpose for us. He could have revealed Himself to us in limitless ways. And yet He chose to do it through a story. A book. When Jesus came to earth, He taught in parables – stories that pointed to something bigger. From the beginning of time, God set a story in motion. He created the world with words, and since then, godly men throughout the centuries have written down and preserved the stories of His faithfulness. And we are in the continuation of that overarching story of His goodness and redemption. We are players in the very best story that has a perfect climax which really doesn’t end. That’s why we like stories here. We flock to the movies and devour books that draw us in and give positive messages of hope and happiness. I think it’s because we realize we were made for something bigger and better. Deep down, we want something to hold onto that’s outside of ourselves, and the best stories we have here give us glimpses of that. They remind us of the beauty and joy and perfection we were created for.
Because Learning Matters
We must never stop learning. I’ve mentioned this before, but I’m truly sorry if school taught you to think of reading and learning as chores and necessary evils. Will you believe me when I say that it’s simply not true? I think Mark Twain said it well when he observed, “I never allow schooling to interfere with my education.” Even (or especially) when we’re not in formal school, learning is vital to our flourishing as humans and we must still engage our minds. I passionately believe that reading is one of the best ways to do this, whether the book is a revered classic or an easy beach read. God has given us minds for a reason, and he loves minds that seek to His glory and our good. The ability to read is a gift in itself. A simple Google search will show you that a staggering percentage of the world today cannot read or write. So I urge you to use and hone that gift. Our minds are not meant to sit idle. Read to learn and to enjoy at the same time. If you’ve never thought those two things could go together, I’d love to chat with you about it! I’ve become a student of reasons people use to not read, and most of them only further convince me that many people simply still have an inaccurate perspective on reading or haven’t read the right book yet. I’d love to help you find one that’s right for you!
So, friends, what does reading mean to you? Do you struggle to read? In what ways do you want to improve your reading life? I’d love to hear!
“Great are the works of the LORD; they are studied by all who delight in them.” –Psalm 111:2
“The works of the LORD are great. In design, in size, in number, in excellence, all the works of the Lord are great. Even the little things of God are great. In some point of view or other each one of the productions of his power, or the deeds of his wisdom, will appear to be great to the wise in heart... Those who love their Maker delight in his handiwork, they perceive that there is more in them than appears upon the surface, and therefore they bend their minds to study and understand them.”
–Commentary on Psalm 111:2
No one wants to be known as a “snob,” and for good reason. When we hear it, we think “stuck-up,” or someone who thinks they’re better than other people. The word is used so often in Downton Abbey that I recently decided to look into it more. And one of the definitions of the word is different than many people might think. We tend to associate snobbishness with arrogance and purely negative qualities, but I think this definition shows that that’s not necessarily true. Make of it what you will:
Snob: a person who believes that their tastes in a particular area are superior to those of other people
When I read this, it got me thinking that actually, most people are probably snobs in one way or another. I know I am. What are you picky about? In what areas do you want only the best? True, we shouldn’t be jerks about it, but I think it’s legitimate to have high expectations about a few things in life. Here are mine.
Fireworks
I blame Disney World for this one. After I saw a Christmas fireworks show synced to fabulous music at Cinderella’s castle about two years ago, my taste for fireworks rose quite a bit. The July 4th displays around my hometown now make me sniff a bit disdainfully if I’m honest. Disney has biased me through and through on this one, but can you blame me? This is pretty fantastic, and these pictures don’t even come close to capturing it.
Sunglasses
About four years ago, I bought my first sturdy, expensive pair of sunglasses and haven’t looked back since (unintended pun). No more of those cheapo, break-in-a-week types from department stores, thanks very much. Plus, most of the ones you find in a department store don’t even shade all of your lines of vision. The ones I now swear by wrap to the sides of your face so that your peripheral vision is also protected. Please and thank you.
Lip Balm
I always have lip moisturizer on hand, and in college, I discovered a kind that has hydrocortisone in it that has done wonders for me. Many types of lip balms will actually dry out your lips slightly so that you’re forced to keep using it, but not so with this one. It keeps your lips moist and smooth for hours and I’ve never had problems with bad sores or dry-outs since I started using it. No other kind will do!
Certain Foods
Surely everyone has these? For me, it’s hamburgers and corn. A few years ago, my mom started cooking hamburgers out of beef that was harvested from cows that were purely grass-fed, and the difference is just so obvious. The taste is more savory, plus you know it’s healthier, so win-win. And for corn, not much can top the when it's fresh from the fields of nowheresville Mississippi. It’s just the truth, y’all.
Television
Many of my friends might call me a snob about movies and television, but it’s more pronounced with television. I’m picky about anything I watch, but if I’m going to devote an hour or so out of every week for an extended period of time, this show better make sure it’s worth my time. This is why I unapologetically watch mostly British TV. As a general rule, I find the writing and character development in British shows much higher quality, hence my fascination with it that I make clear all over this blog. I’m not saying I won’t ever watch an American show, but as Mr. Carson would say, I have to keep up standards ;)
So, there are my snobbish picks. What are yours? Again, as long as you're not a jerk about it, I think it's okay to be a snob in some areas of life. So lay off a bit on snob-labeling good ol' Lady Mary from Downton too. She just has high expectations and refined taste :)
Do you agree with this idea of snobbery? Are you a snob about anything? Please share!
Snob: a person who believes that their tastes in a particular area are superior to those of other people
When I read this, it got me thinking that actually, most people are probably snobs in one way or another. I know I am. What are you picky about? In what areas do you want only the best? True, we shouldn’t be jerks about it, but I think it’s legitimate to have high expectations about a few things in life. Here are mine.
Fireworks
I blame Disney World for this one. After I saw a Christmas fireworks show synced to fabulous music at Cinderella’s castle about two years ago, my taste for fireworks rose quite a bit. The July 4th displays around my hometown now make me sniff a bit disdainfully if I’m honest. Disney has biased me through and through on this one, but can you blame me? This is pretty fantastic, and these pictures don’t even come close to capturing it.
Sunglasses
About four years ago, I bought my first sturdy, expensive pair of sunglasses and haven’t looked back since (unintended pun). No more of those cheapo, break-in-a-week types from department stores, thanks very much. Plus, most of the ones you find in a department store don’t even shade all of your lines of vision. The ones I now swear by wrap to the sides of your face so that your peripheral vision is also protected. Please and thank you.
| There they are in all their shading excellence. And I just happen to like this picture of me and my brother. Beachin'! |
Lip Balm
I always have lip moisturizer on hand, and in college, I discovered a kind that has hydrocortisone in it that has done wonders for me. Many types of lip balms will actually dry out your lips slightly so that you’re forced to keep using it, but not so with this one. It keeps your lips moist and smooth for hours and I’ve never had problems with bad sores or dry-outs since I started using it. No other kind will do!
Certain Foods
Surely everyone has these? For me, it’s hamburgers and corn. A few years ago, my mom started cooking hamburgers out of beef that was harvested from cows that were purely grass-fed, and the difference is just so obvious. The taste is more savory, plus you know it’s healthier, so win-win. And for corn, not much can top the when it's fresh from the fields of nowheresville Mississippi. It’s just the truth, y’all.
| Can't remember if this corn was from Mississippi, but it passed inspection I think. |
Television
Many of my friends might call me a snob about movies and television, but it’s more pronounced with television. I’m picky about anything I watch, but if I’m going to devote an hour or so out of every week for an extended period of time, this show better make sure it’s worth my time. This is why I unapologetically watch mostly British TV. As a general rule, I find the writing and character development in British shows much higher quality, hence my fascination with it that I make clear all over this blog. I’m not saying I won’t ever watch an American show, but as Mr. Carson would say, I have to keep up standards ;)
So, there are my snobbish picks. What are yours? Again, as long as you're not a jerk about it, I think it's okay to be a snob in some areas of life. So lay off a bit on snob-labeling good ol' Lady Mary from Downton too. She just has high expectations and refined taste :)
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| High taste? I think yes, Lady Mary. {Photo Credit: Downton Obsession Tumblr} |
Do you agree with this idea of snobbery? Are you a snob about anything? Please share!
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| {Photo Credit: Wallpaper Cave} |
1. Downton Abbey: A Celebration by Jessica Fellowes
The official behind-the-scenes companion book to all six seasons of Downton Abbey. Author Jessica Fellowes is the niece of Downton’s creator and writer, Julian Fellowes, so obviously, she has an inside scoop like none other. This book is full of gorgeous photographs, interviews with the cast and creators, and thoughtful analyses on the many storylines now coming to a close. It’s sure to be of interest to any devoted Downton fan! I got it for Christmas and can’t wait to dig in. I haven’t yet only because it includes season 6 spoilers, so I’m waiting with bated breath.
2. Downton Themed Tea
3. The Wit and Wisdom of Downton Abbey by Jessica Fellowes
Also compiled by Jessica Fellowes, this little book is a collection of the show’s best quotes. I can only imagine how difficult it was to choose which ones to include. I’m hoping to get my hands on this soon so as to always have witty comebacks on hand for reference. And we all know that Maggie Smith is likely the most quoted one in it.
4. The Manners of Downton Abbey Documentary
This one’s for the full-out nerd like me, and having watched it, I’ve quite often wanted to shove it at people who make comments that show their ignorance about the time period in which Downton Abbey is set. Okay, small rant over. But this is really so informative and fun to watch! The show’s historical advisor, Alastair Bruce, hosts and narrates it, and he guides you through all the customs, manners, and social expectations that were controlling forces in the times of families like the Crawleys. Food, table etiquette, servants’ duties, clothes, marriage, teatime, and everything else you could imagine is discussed, and Alastair Bruce is an engaging and charming host.
5. A Mug with a Memorable Downton Quote
Most of the ones at this page would do, really. This one’s just probably my favorite quote of the options available at it.
6. A Thoroughly Downton-esque T-Shirt
Again, many of the ones at this page would do, but this one particularly caught my eye because it’s really perfect for my feelings these days ;) I also have one that says “Keep Calm and Ring Carson to Bring Tea” that I thoroughly enjoy.
Happy gift-giving and Downton watching! It's only Monday and I'm already ready for Sunday and the next episode.
Though these Eloquent Finds posts are here, it’s been a while since I’ve done one! Please bear with me as I continually tweak and figure out this blogging thing :) But I have a good round-up for you today and hope it gives you some food for thought and fun things to check out this weekend!
First, I have some podcasts. Podcasts are excellent for your commute, run, or chore days, and the ones I have to share are a delight to listen to.
~What Should I Read Next?
I briefly mentioned this new podcast by Anne Bogel, the talented and insightful blogger at Modern Mrs. Darcy, in my post on her 2016 Reading Challenge. I’ve tuned in for all the episodes so far and I’m loving it! If you need suggestions on what to read next, Anne is your woman. She’s a walking encyclopedia on all things books and has already read more than most of us ever will, so she’s bound to have a recommendation for you. But hey, even if you just want to listen to some good, heart-to-heart book talk, this podcast is for you too. My nerdy bookworm heart is made happy to hear intelligent books-and-reading discussion. Check it out!
~Masterpiece Studio Podcast
Hosted by writer and TV critic Jace Lacob, this podcast features never-before-heard discussions with the actors and producers of the latest PBS/Masterpiece dramas. It kicked off at the end of December in anticipation of The Abominable Bride, the recent special episode of Sherlock. Now, the final season of Downton Abbey is under discussion every Monday on the podcast, much to my delight. I love hearing behind-the-scenes tidbits and stories from the actors, the inspiration and opinions of the producers, and the weekly roundtable with Jace and his colleagues about the latest episode. So far on the podcast, we’ve heard from Michelle Dockery (Lady Mary Crawley), Hugh Bonneville and Elizabeth McGovern (Robert and Cora Crawley), Allen Leech (Tom Branson), producer Gareth Neame, and historical advisor Alastair Bruce. All of them share favorite storylines, thoughts on their character’s development, and fun stories from behind the cameras. Any Downton fan is bound to enjoy it.
Next, some fun links.
~YTV’s Anne of Green Gables Trailer
It’s been over thirty years since Megan Follows first charmed the world as Anne Shirley in Kevin Sullivan’s miniseries adaptation of Lucy Maud Montgomery’s classic, Anne of Green Gables. I watched all three of Sullivan’s Anne adaptations repeatedly in my younger years, but currently remain devoted to mainly just the first one. I’m now pretty firmly in the camp that holds that The Sequel was only decent and that The Continuing Story was a disaster. The first one remains the favorite among most fans and it’s certainly set the bar high, but I’m excited to see another screen take on this story. Montgomery’s granddaughter was involved in this production, and from what I’ve read on it, faithfulness to the books has seemed to be of primary importance, so I’m looking forward to seeing it. Even the first Sullivan production, lovely as it is, did still differ from the book in some ways, so I’m interested in another director’s interpretation. This new Anne actress certainly looks like she has the necessary spunk and wide-eyed wonder.
~What Happened When I Tried to Read 100 Books in a Year
I’m inspired when I read things like this. I read fast, but I’m not yet confident I could be this fast. This girl’s list and timetable are truly impressive. It also shows that reading can be hard work, y’all.
~On Being Matt Chandler’s Roommate
Fantastic read that hits home on a sensitive spiritual issue. Steve Bezner is honest about his struggle with envy, a difficult subject to admit and discuss. His story of battling it and eventually overcoming it is moving and encouraging.
~24 Jane Austen Quotes that Still Ring True Today
Typical share for an Austenite, but this is a very nice collection from good old Jane. Can’t resist!
Now for some nice words. I hope you’re touched, inspired, and tickled appropriately.
Holy unhurry flourishes in a heart filled with hope. –Alan Falding
It’s not right for you to cry alone. You’re married, and that means you never have to cry alone again. –Mr. Bates to Anna Bates; Downton Abbey, Season 6
Traveling is the only thing you buy that makes you richer. –Anonymous
I’d rather be alone than with the wrong man. –Lady Mary Crawley; Downton Abbey, Season 6
A woman can always change her mind. It’s what we’re known for. –Lady Mary Crawley; Downton Abbey, Season 6
So come with me, where dreams are born, and time is never planned. Just think of happy things, and your heart will fly on wings forever in Neverland. –J.M. Barrie, Peter Pan
I have no photograph of [Helen] that’s any good. I cannot even see her face distinctly in my imagination. Yet the odd face of some stranger seen in a crowd this morning may come before me in vivid perfection the moment I close my eyes tonight. No doubt, the explanation is simple enough. We have seen the faces of those we know best so variously, from so many angles, in so many lights, with so many expression – waking, sleeping, laughing, crying, eating, talking, thinking – that all the impressions crowd into our memory together and cancel out into a mere blur. But her voice is still vivid. The remembered voice – that can turn me at any moment to a whimpering child. –C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed (written upon the death of his wife, Helen Joy Davidman Lewis)
O the deep, deep love of Jesus, vast, unmeasured, boundless, free!
Rolling as a mighty ocean in its fullness over me!
Underneath me, all around me, is the current of Thy love,
Leading onward, leading homeward to Thy glorious rest above!
–Samuel Francis; “O the Deep, Deep Love of Jesus”
Have a great weekend!
First, I have some podcasts. Podcasts are excellent for your commute, run, or chore days, and the ones I have to share are a delight to listen to.
~What Should I Read Next?
I briefly mentioned this new podcast by Anne Bogel, the talented and insightful blogger at Modern Mrs. Darcy, in my post on her 2016 Reading Challenge. I’ve tuned in for all the episodes so far and I’m loving it! If you need suggestions on what to read next, Anne is your woman. She’s a walking encyclopedia on all things books and has already read more than most of us ever will, so she’s bound to have a recommendation for you. But hey, even if you just want to listen to some good, heart-to-heart book talk, this podcast is for you too. My nerdy bookworm heart is made happy to hear intelligent books-and-reading discussion. Check it out!
~Masterpiece Studio Podcast
Hosted by writer and TV critic Jace Lacob, this podcast features never-before-heard discussions with the actors and producers of the latest PBS/Masterpiece dramas. It kicked off at the end of December in anticipation of The Abominable Bride, the recent special episode of Sherlock. Now, the final season of Downton Abbey is under discussion every Monday on the podcast, much to my delight. I love hearing behind-the-scenes tidbits and stories from the actors, the inspiration and opinions of the producers, and the weekly roundtable with Jace and his colleagues about the latest episode. So far on the podcast, we’ve heard from Michelle Dockery (Lady Mary Crawley), Hugh Bonneville and Elizabeth McGovern (Robert and Cora Crawley), Allen Leech (Tom Branson), producer Gareth Neame, and historical advisor Alastair Bruce. All of them share favorite storylines, thoughts on their character’s development, and fun stories from behind the cameras. Any Downton fan is bound to enjoy it.
Next, some fun links.
~YTV’s Anne of Green Gables Trailer
It’s been over thirty years since Megan Follows first charmed the world as Anne Shirley in Kevin Sullivan’s miniseries adaptation of Lucy Maud Montgomery’s classic, Anne of Green Gables. I watched all three of Sullivan’s Anne adaptations repeatedly in my younger years, but currently remain devoted to mainly just the first one. I’m now pretty firmly in the camp that holds that The Sequel was only decent and that The Continuing Story was a disaster. The first one remains the favorite among most fans and it’s certainly set the bar high, but I’m excited to see another screen take on this story. Montgomery’s granddaughter was involved in this production, and from what I’ve read on it, faithfulness to the books has seemed to be of primary importance, so I’m looking forward to seeing it. Even the first Sullivan production, lovely as it is, did still differ from the book in some ways, so I’m interested in another director’s interpretation. This new Anne actress certainly looks like she has the necessary spunk and wide-eyed wonder.
~What Happened When I Tried to Read 100 Books in a Year
I’m inspired when I read things like this. I read fast, but I’m not yet confident I could be this fast. This girl’s list and timetable are truly impressive. It also shows that reading can be hard work, y’all.
~On Being Matt Chandler’s Roommate
Fantastic read that hits home on a sensitive spiritual issue. Steve Bezner is honest about his struggle with envy, a difficult subject to admit and discuss. His story of battling it and eventually overcoming it is moving and encouraging.
~24 Jane Austen Quotes that Still Ring True Today
Typical share for an Austenite, but this is a very nice collection from good old Jane. Can’t resist!
Now for some nice words. I hope you’re touched, inspired, and tickled appropriately.
Holy unhurry flourishes in a heart filled with hope. –Alan Falding
It’s not right for you to cry alone. You’re married, and that means you never have to cry alone again. –Mr. Bates to Anna Bates; Downton Abbey, Season 6
Traveling is the only thing you buy that makes you richer. –Anonymous
I’d rather be alone than with the wrong man. –Lady Mary Crawley; Downton Abbey, Season 6
A woman can always change her mind. It’s what we’re known for. –Lady Mary Crawley; Downton Abbey, Season 6
So come with me, where dreams are born, and time is never planned. Just think of happy things, and your heart will fly on wings forever in Neverland. –J.M. Barrie, Peter Pan
I have no photograph of [Helen] that’s any good. I cannot even see her face distinctly in my imagination. Yet the odd face of some stranger seen in a crowd this morning may come before me in vivid perfection the moment I close my eyes tonight. No doubt, the explanation is simple enough. We have seen the faces of those we know best so variously, from so many angles, in so many lights, with so many expression – waking, sleeping, laughing, crying, eating, talking, thinking – that all the impressions crowd into our memory together and cancel out into a mere blur. But her voice is still vivid. The remembered voice – that can turn me at any moment to a whimpering child. –C.S. Lewis, A Grief Observed (written upon the death of his wife, Helen Joy Davidman Lewis)
O the deep, deep love of Jesus, vast, unmeasured, boundless, free!
Rolling as a mighty ocean in its fullness over me!
Underneath me, all around me, is the current of Thy love,
Leading onward, leading homeward to Thy glorious rest above!
–Samuel Francis; “O the Deep, Deep Love of Jesus”
Have a great weekend!
*I do not own the rights to the last three photos in this post. Photo credits below*
What Should I Read Next Podcast: Modern Mrs. Darcy
Masterpiece Studio Podcast: Facebook: Downton Abbey
YTV's Anne of Green Gables: L.M. Montgomery Online
What Should I Read Next Podcast: Modern Mrs. Darcy
Masterpiece Studio Podcast: Facebook: Downton Abbey
YTV's Anne of Green Gables: L.M. Montgomery Online
My family is really into Christmas ornaments and has been as long as I can remember. Ever since my siblings and I were born, we’ve all received an ornament each year before Christmas, so we have quite the collections at this point. And whenever we travel somewhere fun or notable, a Christmas ornament is usually the souvenir my mom buys. I’ve grown to really appreciate this tradition in our family because the ornament collections that have grown from it are now extremely telling of the people to whom they belong. My brother’s consists of trains, my sister’s of cats, and mine of angels, books, and literary characters (are you surprised?). I love that I can look at our tree now and see so much of each family member. I can learn about them and their stories from the ornaments they’ve received over the years. And I know even a mild observer would know a few important things about me after looking at my collection. Here are a few of my favorites from over the years.
The March Girls
Meg, Jo, Beth, and Amy from Little Women. Still one of my favorite books, and these sweet ornaments still charm me when I pull them out every year.
Holiday Angels
Each angel is supposed to represent some aspect of the holiday season. This series took me through some of middle school and all of high school I believe! I love the elegance of them.
Around the World Angels
Perfect for the travel bug in me. I was sold when I saw that the first one in the series was for Ireland. Since then, there’s been one for Germany, England, America, and Mexico.
And while we’re at it, I have to throw in this one for good measure. A sweet friend of mine took to crafting last year and did a number of bookish decor items that I fell in love with. This glass ball covered in snippets of Pride and Prejudice pages was too good to pass up.
And in the background there, you can see one of the ornaments in my series of children's nursery rhyme book ornaments! It was my very first collection. My interests clearly haven't changed much since then. How glad I am that I was introduced to the importance of a good story early on.
Do you have special ornaments for your Christmas tree? What are fun traditions you do at Christmas?
Merry Christmas, dear readers! I'm thankful for you!
The March Girls
Meg, Jo, Beth, and Amy from Little Women. Still one of my favorite books, and these sweet ornaments still charm me when I pull them out every year.
| From left to right: Jo, Meg, Beth, Amy. There's actual velvet and lace on their clothes! |
Holiday Angels
Each angel is supposed to represent some aspect of the holiday season. This series took me through some of middle school and all of high school I believe! I love the elegance of them.
Perfect for the travel bug in me. I was sold when I saw that the first one in the series was for Ireland. Since then, there’s been one for Germany, England, America, and Mexico.
| The Ireland angel, as is likely evident. And yes, that is an ornament of Aubie in a graduation cap and gown in the background there. |
And while we’re at it, I have to throw in this one for good measure. A sweet friend of mine took to crafting last year and did a number of bookish decor items that I fell in love with. This glass ball covered in snippets of Pride and Prejudice pages was too good to pass up.
And in the background there, you can see one of the ornaments in my series of children's nursery rhyme book ornaments! It was my very first collection. My interests clearly haven't changed much since then. How glad I am that I was introduced to the importance of a good story early on.
Do you have special ornaments for your Christmas tree? What are fun traditions you do at Christmas?
Merry Christmas, dear readers! I'm thankful for you!
Hello all! Today I’m taking the opportunity to make a shameless plug for one of my favorite book bloggers, Jamie Lapeyrolerie, over at Books and Beverages! Like me, she dreams of having a library like the one in Beauty and the Beast and is an avid fan of C.S. Lewis and his land of Narnia. This week, she has opened a brand new online shop that is the bookish person’s dream. As an excited member of her launch team, I got a few of her goodies in the mail and am delighted with them! Narnia, Middle-Earth, and all-around bookishness abound. Here are a few of my favorite items! Read up and then go check out Books and Beverages – the Shoppe. If you love reading or those guys who wrote Lord of the Rings and The Chronicles of Narnia, you’ll be right at home.
“For the Love of Literature” Postcards
As you can see, I made quick work of displaying one of these. That quote of C.S. Lewis on fairytales is a longtime favorite, so I love being able to see it every day now! These postcards are thick and sturdy, unlike the flimsy ones you’d find in a gift shop, and they’re perfect for displaying or for mailing. I’ve not yet decided if I’ll send them out to a friend, so for now I’m content to see their lovely selves in my room every day.
Narnia and Lord of the Rings Themed Bookmarks and Stickers
The stickers are the ones with square corners and the bookmark has the rounded corners. I love these quotes and illustrations on them! In particular, I’ve always really liked that Narnia quote about how Aslan isn’t safe, but good. I’m still looking for the perfect place to stick these stickers. Can’t choose too carefully on those! And of course, I couldn’t ever have too many bookmarks! I like the smaller size of this one too. It’ll be a nice addition to my already large collection :)
The Book Blogger’s Planner
To be honest, this is so pretty I’m almost afraid to write anything in it! But it’s perfect for people who write about a lot of books, so I’ll certainly be trying to crack it open and figure out a system for using it pretty soon here. And I just love the illustration on the front and the fun, handwriting-ish type font.
Those are just a few of the things Jamie’s been hard at work to get ready! There’s so much more to look through on there, and so many things would make perfect gifts for the book lovers in your life. Hop on over to the Shoppe and check it out, and be sure to hang around her blog for a little while to talk stories. She’s great at garnering awesome discussions about so many wonderful books.
“For the Love of Literature” Postcards
As you can see, I made quick work of displaying one of these. That quote of C.S. Lewis on fairytales is a longtime favorite, so I love being able to see it every day now! These postcards are thick and sturdy, unlike the flimsy ones you’d find in a gift shop, and they’re perfect for displaying or for mailing. I’ve not yet decided if I’ll send them out to a friend, so for now I’m content to see their lovely selves in my room every day.
Narnia and Lord of the Rings Themed Bookmarks and Stickers
The stickers are the ones with square corners and the bookmark has the rounded corners. I love these quotes and illustrations on them! In particular, I’ve always really liked that Narnia quote about how Aslan isn’t safe, but good. I’m still looking for the perfect place to stick these stickers. Can’t choose too carefully on those! And of course, I couldn’t ever have too many bookmarks! I like the smaller size of this one too. It’ll be a nice addition to my already large collection :)
The Book Blogger’s Planner
To be honest, this is so pretty I’m almost afraid to write anything in it! But it’s perfect for people who write about a lot of books, so I’ll certainly be trying to crack it open and figure out a system for using it pretty soon here. And I just love the illustration on the front and the fun, handwriting-ish type font.
Those are just a few of the things Jamie’s been hard at work to get ready! There’s so much more to look through on there, and so many things would make perfect gifts for the book lovers in your life. Hop on over to the Shoppe and check it out, and be sure to hang around her blog for a little while to talk stories. She’s great at garnering awesome discussions about so many wonderful books.
I turned 24 last week and was thereby asked several times whether I felt older, wiser, or more mature. Maybe it’s sad at this point, but birthdays can now just kind of happen since I’ve passed all the major milestone ones. I mean, next year I’ll be able to rent a car, but I don’t think that’s particularly groundbreaking. It was a lovely day though. People I love showed up, and that means a lot in a world of busy schedules, hurried lives, and limited time.
Another thing I like to do as birthdays approach is to reflect on what I’ve learned or grown in during the previous age. Every year is different and at every new age, I think I’m learning more and more that I’m a work in progress and will continue to be so. No one will ever “arrive” or have nothing left to figure out. And that’s a mercy, for what would we be here for if there was nothing else to learn? So, here are a few things that I think I’ve learned or been reminded of strongly as I’ve approached 24.
Life can be difficult
I’ve shared before that I watched a close friend and her dad simultaneously battle cancer this year. It was hard and long and painful. I’ve been reminded up close that this life and this world are difficult and unpredictable. There are no guarantees and circumstances can change in an instant. I never would have wanted to go through that, but I can honestly say that I am now closer to this friend and her family, that they are closer to one another, and that they are more confident than ever in the grace and steadfast love of God. And I, along with their other friends and family, praise Him now for His healing power and sovereignty in their lives. They are living testimonies of His mercy and faithfulness.
Life can be uncertain and slow and that’s okay
Perhaps the greatest challenge for me since graduating from college has been the lack of an expected next step or defined path. This culture is overwhelmed with more information and options than we can process, and wading into that has been very difficult for my type A, planner-loving self. Once I started working full-time, a routine developed quickly, but all sorts of questions still whirl – will I ever get to do X, Y, or Z that I really want to do but can’t right now? How long should I ever live in one place? What should my goals be right now? What should I be pursuing in 5 years? And plenty of others. But as I kind of already mentioned, life is a work in progress and I am a work in progress that will continue. It’s okay to not have everything figured out right now, and now does not necessarily determine what has to be next. Slow days are to be expected and even prized. Life does not have to be constantly exciting or full of mountaintop, enviable experiences to be valuable. I’m learning every day to see the grace and beauty in the small moments too. Normal is good and no less holy than the bigger moments.
Don’t go solo, even if it takes time
I’m an introvert. I like being alone. I handle large amounts of solitude very well. And it’s been easy for me this year to retreat into alone-ness more often since working all day every day dominates a schedule and leaves room for little else if you’re not strategic. But no one is meant to do this life alone. I have to work at it more than others, especially if I’m tired at the end of a work day or am still just getting to know people in a group I’m doing something with. But I know it’ll be worth it because ultimately, I need other people. We all do.
Thanks for all you taught me, 23. Here’s to 24 and all it will bring. I have no idea what all that is, but I’m trusting it will be good. And the first day was a pretty great start – thank you to these precious friends for making it so!
Another thing I like to do as birthdays approach is to reflect on what I’ve learned or grown in during the previous age. Every year is different and at every new age, I think I’m learning more and more that I’m a work in progress and will continue to be so. No one will ever “arrive” or have nothing left to figure out. And that’s a mercy, for what would we be here for if there was nothing else to learn? So, here are a few things that I think I’ve learned or been reminded of strongly as I’ve approached 24.
Life can be difficult
I’ve shared before that I watched a close friend and her dad simultaneously battle cancer this year. It was hard and long and painful. I’ve been reminded up close that this life and this world are difficult and unpredictable. There are no guarantees and circumstances can change in an instant. I never would have wanted to go through that, but I can honestly say that I am now closer to this friend and her family, that they are closer to one another, and that they are more confident than ever in the grace and steadfast love of God. And I, along with their other friends and family, praise Him now for His healing power and sovereignty in their lives. They are living testimonies of His mercy and faithfulness.
Life can be uncertain and slow and that’s okay
Perhaps the greatest challenge for me since graduating from college has been the lack of an expected next step or defined path. This culture is overwhelmed with more information and options than we can process, and wading into that has been very difficult for my type A, planner-loving self. Once I started working full-time, a routine developed quickly, but all sorts of questions still whirl – will I ever get to do X, Y, or Z that I really want to do but can’t right now? How long should I ever live in one place? What should my goals be right now? What should I be pursuing in 5 years? And plenty of others. But as I kind of already mentioned, life is a work in progress and I am a work in progress that will continue. It’s okay to not have everything figured out right now, and now does not necessarily determine what has to be next. Slow days are to be expected and even prized. Life does not have to be constantly exciting or full of mountaintop, enviable experiences to be valuable. I’m learning every day to see the grace and beauty in the small moments too. Normal is good and no less holy than the bigger moments.
Don’t go solo, even if it takes time
I’m an introvert. I like being alone. I handle large amounts of solitude very well. And it’s been easy for me this year to retreat into alone-ness more often since working all day every day dominates a schedule and leaves room for little else if you’re not strategic. But no one is meant to do this life alone. I have to work at it more than others, especially if I’m tired at the end of a work day or am still just getting to know people in a group I’m doing something with. But I know it’ll be worth it because ultimately, I need other people. We all do.
Thanks for all you taught me, 23. Here’s to 24 and all it will bring. I have no idea what all that is, but I’m trusting it will be good. And the first day was a pretty great start – thank you to these precious friends for making it so!
“It was November – the month of crimson sunsets, parting birds, deep, sad hymns of the sea, passionate wind-songs in the pines.” – L.M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables
That’s a favorite recent November quote. As a whole, November often gets a bad rep among months since the golden, colorful fall days wear off and the trees begin baring their knobby skeletons, but I’ve certainly seen a good share of lovely crimson sunsets and high-flying, parting birds this November. It’s a special month for me because of the approaching holidays, it’s my birthday month and that of many I love, and with Thanksgiving in its midst, it reminds me to think seriously about whether I’m practicing thankfulness. What does it mean to be thankful? This is something that I’ve thought about for literally years. Ann Voskamp helped me unpack it a lot with this book, and even though I’m far from constantly thankful, I’m at least convinced that it’s an attitude. A way of life. A practice. A choice. Circumstances do not dictate it, though it may seem like it. And it is a forerunner to joy. Ann Voskamp says that “thanksgiving is joy’s oxygen,” and I’ve learned that it’s true. Find something to give thanks for, big or small. And often, the smallest things are worth noting and praising the Lord for.
I am thankful for…
~New lipstick
~Playlists from a friend
~When a puppy trips over itself
~Thanksgiving food
~Pretty scarves
~New friends to laugh and talk with
And I’m thankful for this year. It’s been hard in many ways – I watched a close friend and her dad battle cancer, I’ve had to adjust to life after college and the new responsibilities that come with it, and uncertainty is ever-present. But it’s been good.
And the books I’ve read have certainly helped to make it good :) That’s one thing about adulthood with which I’ve had no difficulty – so much more time to read! I’ve loved it and I’ve loved sharing what I’m reading here. I hope you’ve found helpful recommendations and interesting discussions so far. Today I’m talking about two recent reads of pretty different genres.
The Fault in Our Stars by John Green
This was the first book I listened to on Audible and I was very impressed. Though it’s not the same as actual reading, I thoroughly enjoyed it and was just as absorbed as I would have been in a hard copy of the book. And the story itself is excellent. I’m obviously a bit behind the times on this one, and it’s because I’m admittedly wary of young adult fiction and “fluffy” novels. But I was pleased to find that the story wasn’t at all fluffy or shallow, even though it is about teenagers. For a mature adolescent, The Fault in Our Stars would provide many good talking points about love, marriage, family, and friendship. The characters are strong and easy to sympathize with. Hazel Grace is an admirable heroine who captures your heart from the beginning with her wit, strength, compassion, and well-timed sarcasm. And the book’s focus on cancer patients is informative, thoughtful, and touching. Having seen a close friend face cancer, I appreciated how the author handled the subject and showed the struggles of patients. And yet, it was also one of the funnier books I’ve read this year. I deeply admire John Green’s ability to inject humor tastefully into such a serious topic. My cancer survivor friend told me that this aspect is accurate because even though fighting cancer is a dark, difficult world, those who live in it have to laugh in order to keep going. And I certainly did as I read this book. And of course I cried like a baby at the end.
The Forgotten Garden by Kate Morton
Kate Morton is a new find for me. Anne Bogel over at Modern Mrs. Darcy has sung her praises quite often, so I looked her up and decided to give her a try. She’s very different from many authors I’ve read, both in style and in focus. Set mostly in Cornwall, England and spanning several generations of characters, The Forgotten Garden is particularly daring in its structure. It constantly switches between four to five different time periods as well as the perspectives of many characters, so it requires sharp attention, as it’s obviously a lot to keep up with. But the story is insightful, intricate, and admirably researched and constructed. I was impressed at the detail Kate Morton had woven into the story and the extensive study she would have had to do on Cornwall to bring everything to life. And the book’s main focus is on solving its mystery storyline more than it’s about a specific character or two, which was also different for me. I usually gravitate towards books that are about a character, but this one drew me in no less quickly. After each chapter I was eager to see what piece of the puzzle would fall into place next, and the characters, while not as detailed as those of other books, certainly left memorable impressions and had distinct marks of personality. A mix of suspense, Victorian history, a dash of Poldark-like scenery, and a bit of Jane Eyre, this book was engaging and lovely. I think more Kate Morton will likely be in my future!
Hopefully that provides a few good recommendations for your Thanksgiving holidays! Enjoy some turkey and sweet potato casserole. Suggestion: have a “Friends-giving” dinner in addition to the actual family one. I did this week and it was beyond refreshing! Give some thanks and open some new books this Thanksgiving.
What are you thankful for? How do you practice giving thanks? What do you do for Thanksgiving? What will you be reading over Thanksgiving?






















